remove qemu-options* from root directory

These headers are also included from softmmu/vl.c, so they should be
in include/.  Remove qemu-options-wrapper.h, since elsewhere
we include "template" headers directly and #define the parameters in
the including file; move qemu-options.h to include/.

Reviewed-by: Markus Armbruster <armbru@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>