nbd: implement TLS support in the protocol negotiation

This extends the NBD protocol handling code so that it is capable
of negotiating TLS support during the connection setup. This involves
requesting the STARTTLS protocol option before any other NBD options.

Signed-off-by: Daniel P. Berrange <berrange@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <1455129674-17255-14-git-send-email-berrange@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>