win32/socket: introduce qemu_socket_select() helper

This is a wrapper for WSAEventSelect, with Error handling. By default,
it will produce a warning, so callers don't have to be modified
now, and yet we can spot potential mis-use.

Signed-off-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Berger <stefanb@linux.ibm.com>
Message-Id: <20230221124802.4103554-7-marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>