block: Mark block_job_add_bdrv() GRAPH_WRLOCK

Instead of taking the writer lock internally, require callers to already
hold it when calling block_job_add_bdrv(). These callers will typically
already hold the graph lock once the locking work is completed, which
means that they can't call functions that take it internally.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20231027155333.420094-6-kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>