nbd-server: do not check request length except for reads and writes

Only reads and writes need to allocate memory correspondent to the
request length.  Other requests can be sent to the storage without
allocating any memory, and thus any request length is acceptable.

Reported-by: Sitsofe Wheeler <sitsofe@yahoo.com>
Cc: qemu-block@nongnu.org
Reviewed-by: Max Reitz <mreitz@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>