vhost-user-blk: add discard/write zeroes features support

Linux commit 1f23816b8 "virtio_blk: add discard and write zeroes support"
added the support in the Guest kernel, while here also enable the features
support with vhost-user-blk driver. Also enable the test example utility
with DISCARD and WRITE ZEROES commands.

Signed-off-by: Changpeng Liu <changpeng.liu@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>