virtio-mem: Allow notifiers for size changes

We want to send qapi events in case the size of a virtio-mem device
changes. This allows upper layers to always know how much memory is
actually currently consumed via a virtio-mem device.

Unfortuantely, we have to report the id of our proxy device. Let's provide
an easy way for our proxy device to register, so it can send the qapi
events. Piggy-backing on the notifier infrastructure (although we'll
only ever have one notifier registered) seems to be an easy way.

Reviewed-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Cc: "Michael S. Tsirkin" <mst@redhat.com>
Cc: "Dr. David Alan Gilbert" <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Cc: Igor Mammedov <imammedo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Hildenbrand <david@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20200626072248.78761-17-david@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>