block/export: Move refcount from NBDExport to BlockExport

Having a refcount makes sense for all types of block exports. It is also
a prerequisite for keeping a list of all exports at the BlockExport
level.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Max Reitz <mreitz@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20200924152717.287415-14-kwolf@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>