virtio: turn vq->notification into a nested counter

Polling should disable virtqueue notifications but that requires nested
virtio_queue_set_notification() calls.  Turn vq->notification into a
counter so it is possible to do nesting.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Message-id: 20161201192652.9509-10-stefanha@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>