pc: Support coldplugging of virtio-pmem-pci devices on all buses

E.g., with "pc-q35-4.2", trying to coldplug a virtio-pmem-pci devices
results in
    "virtio-pmem-pci not supported on this bus"

Reasons is, that the bus does not support hotplug and, therefore, does
not have a hotplug handler. Let's allow coldplugging virtio-pmem devices
on such buses. The hotplug order is only relevant for virtio-pmem-pci
when the guest is already alive and the device is visible before
memory_device_plug() wired up the memory device bits.

Hotplug attempts will still fail with:
    "Error: Bus 'pcie.0' does not support hotplugging"

Hotunplug attempts will still fail with:
    "Error: Bus 'pcie.0' does not support hotplugging"

Reported-by: Vivek Goyal <vgoyal@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Pankaj Gupta <pankaj.gupta.linux@gmail.com>
Cc: Pankaj Gupta <pankaj.gupta.linux@gmail.com>
Cc: Igor Mammedov <imammedo@redhat.com>
Cc: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Cc: Richard Henderson <rth@twiddle.net>
Cc: Eduardo Habkost <ehabkost@redhat.com>
Cc: "Michael S. Tsirkin" <mst@redhat.com>
Cc: Marcel Apfelbaum <marcel.apfelbaum@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David Hildenbrand <david@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20200626072248.78761-2-david@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>