tools/virtiofsd: Replace the word 'whitelist'

Follow the inclusive terminology from the "Conscious Language in your
Open Source Projects" guidelines [*] and replace the words "whitelist"
appropriately.

[*] https://github.com/conscious-lang/conscious-lang-docs/blob/main/faq.md



Reviewed-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Daniel P. Berrangé <berrange@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Philippe Mathieu-Daudé <philmd@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20210205171817.2108907-3-philmd@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>