softfloat: pass float_status pointer to pickNaN

Pass float_status structure pointer to the pickNaN so that
machine-specific settings are available to NaN selection code.
Add use_first_nan property to float_status and use it in Xtensa-specific
pickNaN.

Cc: Peter Maydell <peter.maydell@linaro.org>
Cc: "Alex Bennée" <alex.bennee@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Alex Bennée <alex.bennee@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Richard Henderson <richard.henderson@linaro.org>
Signed-off-by: Max Filippov <jcmvbkbc@gmail.com>