move public invalidate APIs out of translate-all.{c,h}, clean up

Place them in exec.c, exec-all.h and ram_addr.h.  This removes
knowledge of translate-all.h (which is an internal header) from
several files outside accel/tcg and removes knowledge of
AddressSpace from translate-all.c (as it only operates on ram_addr_t).

Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>