virtio: Make sure we get correct state of device on handle_aio_output()

We should set the flags: "start_on_kick" and "started" after we call
the kick functions (handle_aio_output() and handle_output()).

Signed-off-by: Xie Yongji <xieyongji@baidu.com>
Message-Id: <20190626023130.31315-5-xieyongji@baidu.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>