block: Let replace_child_tran keep indirect pointer

As of a future commit, bdrv_replace_child_noperm() will clear the
indirect BdrvChild pointer passed to it if the new child BDS is NULL.
bdrv_replace_child_tran() will want to let it do that, but revert this
change in its abort handler.  For that, we need to have it receive a
BdrvChild ** pointer, too, and keep it stored in the
BdrvReplaceChildState object that we attach to the transaction.

Note that we do not need to store it in the BdrvReplaceChildState when
new_bs is not NULL, because then there is nothing to revert.  This is
important so that bdrv_replace_node_noperm() can pass a pointer to a
loop-local variable to bdrv_replace_child_tran() without worrying that
this pointer will outlive one loop iteration.

(Of course, for that to work, bdrv_replace_node_noperm() and in turn
bdrv_replace_node() and its relatives may not be called with a NULL @to
node.  Luckily, they already are not, but now we should assert this.)

bdrv_remove_file_or_backing_child() on the other hand needs to ensure
that the indirect pointer it passes will stay valid for the duration of
the transaction.  Ensure this by keeping a strong reference to the BDS
whose &bs->backing or &bs->file it passes to bdrv_replace_child_tran(),
and giving up that reference only in the transaction .clean() handler.

Signed-off-by: Hanna Reitz <hreitz@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20211111120829.81329-9-hreitz@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20211115145409.176785-9-kwolf@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Hanna Reitz <hreitz@redhat.com>