job: Add reference counting

This moves reference counting from BlockJob to Job.

In order to keep calling the BlockJob cleanup code when the job is
deleted via job_unref(), introduce a new JobDriver.free callback. Every
block job must use block_job_free() for this callback, this is asserted
in block_job_create().

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Max Reitz <mreitz@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: John Snow <jsnow@redhat.com>