migration: Fix possible race when shutting down to_dst_file

It's not safe to call qemu_file_shutdown() on the to_dst_file without
first checking for the file's presence under the lock. The cleanup of
this file happens at postcopy_pause() and migrate_fd_cleanup() which
are not necessarily running in the same thread as migrate_fd_cancel().

Reviewed-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Fabiano Rosas <farosas@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20230918172822.19052-5-farosas@suse.de>