virtio-net: Expose ctrl virtqueue logic

This allows external vhost-net devices to modify the state of the
VirtIO device model once the vhost-vdpa device has acknowledged the
control commands.

Signed-off-by: Eugenio Pérez <eperezma@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>