migration: add trace point when vm_stop_force_state fails

This is a critical failure scenario for migration that is hard to
diagnose from existing probes. Most likely it is caused by an error
from bdrv_flush(), but we're not logging the errno anywhere, hence
this new probe.

Reviewed-by: Connor Kuehl <ckuehl@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel P. Berrangé <berrange@redhat.com>