vhost: rename RESET_DEVICE backto RESET_OWNER

This patch basically reverts commit d1f8b30e.

It turned out that it breaks stuff, so revert it:
    http://lists.nongnu.org/archive/html/qemu-devel/2015-10/msg00949.html



CC: "Michael S. Tsirkin" <mst@redhat.com>
Reported-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Yuanhan Liu <yuanhan.liu@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>