block: Use BdrvChild callbacks for change_media/resize

We want to get rid of BlockDriverState.blk in order to allow multiple
BlockBackends per BDS. Converting the device callbacks in block.c (which
assume a single BlockBackend) to per-child callbacks gets us rid of the
first few instances.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Max Reitz <mreitz@redhat.com>