memory: add address_space_access_valid

The old-style IOMMU lets you check whether an access is valid in a
given DMAContext.  There is no equivalent for AddressSpace in the
memory API, implement it with a lookup of the dispatch tree.

Reviewed-by: Richard Henderson <rth@twiddle.net>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>