util/iov: make qemu_iovec_init_extended() honest

Actually, we can't extend the io vector in all cases. Handle possible
MAX_IOV and size_t overflows.

For now add assertion to callers (actually they rely on success anyway)
and fix them in the following patch.

Add also some additional good assertions to qemu_iovec_init_slice()
while being here.

Signed-off-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Message-Id: <20201211183934.169161-3-vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>