vhost: check the existence of vhost_set_iotlb_callback

Add the check of vhost_set_iotlb_callback
before calling

Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Cindy Lu <lulu@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20200701145538.22333-6-lulu@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>