nbd: change error checking order for bitmaps

Check that the bitmap is not in use prior to it checking if it is
not enabled/recording guest writes. The bitmap being busy was likely
at the behest of the user, so this error has a greater chance of being
understood by the user.

Signed-off-by: John Snow <jsnow@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Message-id: 20190223000614.13894-6-jsnow@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: John Snow <jsnow@redhat.com>