nbd: use BlockDriverState refcnt

Previously, nbd calls drive_get_ref() on the drive of bs. A BDS doesn't
always have associated dinfo, which nbd doesn't care either. We already
have BDS ref count, so use it to make it safe for a BDS w/o blockdev.

Signed-off-by: Fam Zheng <famz@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>