nbd/server: Better error for NBD_OPT_EXPORT_NAME failure

When a client abruptly disconnects before we've finished reading
the name sent with NBD_OPT_EXPORT_NAME, we are better off logging
the failure as EIO (we can't communicate with the client), rather
than EINVAL (the client sent bogus data).

Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Message-Id: <20180110230825.18321-4-eblake@redhat.com>