block: Mark bdrv_replace_child_tran() GRAPH_WRLOCK

Instead of taking the writer lock internally, require callers to already
hold it when calling bdrv_replace_child_tran(). These callers will
typically already hold the graph lock once the locking work is
completed, which means that they can't call functions that take it
internally.

While a graph lock is held, polling is not allowed. Therefore draining
the necessary nodes can no longer be done in bdrv_remove_child() and
bdrv_replace_node_noperm(), but the callers must already make sure that
they are drained.

Note that the transaction callbacks still take the lock internally, so
tran_finalize() must be called without the lock held. This is because
bdrv_append() also calls bdrv_attach_child_noperm(), which currently
requires to be called unlocked. Once it changes, the transaction
callbacks can be changed, too.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Emanuele Giuseppe Esposito <eesposit@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20230911094620.45040-10-kwolf@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>