nbd/client: fix error messages in nbd_handle_reply_err

1. NBD_REP_ERR_INVALID is not only about length, so, make message more
   general

2. hex format is not very good: it's hard to read something like
   "option a (set meta context)", so switch to dec.

Signed-off-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Message-Id: <1518702707-7077-6-git-send-email-vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
[eblake: expand scope of patch: ALL uses of nbd_opt_lookup and
nbd_rep_lookup are now decimal]
Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>