tap: support enabling or disabling a queue

This patch introduce a new bit - enabled in TAPState which tracks whether a
specific queue/fd is enabled. The tap/fd is enabled during initialization and
could be enabled/disabled by tap_enalbe() and tap_disable() which calls platform
specific helpers to do the real work. Polling of a tap fd can only done when
the tap was enabled.

Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Anthony Liguori <aliguori@us.ibm.com>