block: move ThrottleGroup membership to ThrottleGroupMember

This commit eliminates the 1:1 relationship between BlockBackend and
throttle group state.  Users will be able to create multiple throttle
nodes, each with its own throttle group state, in the future.  The
throttle group state cannot be per-BlockBackend anymore, it must be
per-throttle node. This is done by gathering ThrottleGroup membership
details from BlockBackendPublic into ThrottleGroupMember and refactoring
existing code to use the structure.

Reviewed-by: Alberto Garcia <berto@igalia.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Manos Pitsidianakis <el13635@mail.ntua.gr>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>