qemu-nbd: add --tls-hostname option for TLS certificate validation

When using the --list option, qemu-nbd acts as an NBD client rather
than a server. As such when using TLS, it has a need to validate
the server certificate. This adds a --tls-hostname option which can
be used to override the default hostname used for certificate
validation.

Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel P. Berrangé <berrange@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20220304193610.3293146-5-berrange@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>