Split out no-perm part of bdrv_set_backing_hd() as a separate
transaction action. Note the in case of existing BdrvChild we reuse it,
not recreate, just to do less actions.

We don't need to create extra reference to backing_hd as we don't lose
it in bdrv_attach_child().

Signed-off-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Reviewed-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20210428151804.439460-29-vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>