machine_init_done is not the right flag to check when preconfig
is taken into account; for example "./qemu-system-x86_64 -serial
mon:stdio -preconfig" does not print the QEMU monitor header until after
exit_preconfig.  Add back a custom bool for mux character devices.  This
partially undoes commit c7278b43 ("chardev: introduce chr_machine_done
hook", 2018-03-12), but it keeps the cleaner logic using a function
pointer in ChardevClass.

Reviewed-by: Igor Mammedov <imammedo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>