reader_count() is a performance bottleneck because the global
aio_context_list_lock mutex causes thread contention. Put this debugging
assertion behind a new ./configure --enable-debug-graph-lock option and
disable it by default.

The --enable-debug-graph-lock option is also enabled by the more general
--enable-debug option.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20230501173443.153062-1-stefanha@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>