Instead of taking the writer lock internally, require callers to already
hold it when calling bdrv_attach_child_common(). These callers will
typically already hold the graph lock once the locking work is
completed, which means that they can't call functions that take it
internally.

Note that the transaction callbacks still take the lock internally, so
tran_finalize() must be called without the lock held. This is because
bdrv_append() also calls bdrv_replace_node_noperm(), which currently
requires the transaction callbacks to be called unlocked. In the next
step, both of them can be switched to locked tran_finalize() calls
together.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20230911094620.45040-11-kwolf@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>