Modify create/destroy QP to support shared receive queue and rearrange
the destroy_qp() code to avoid touching the QP after calling
rdma_rm_dealloc_qp().

Signed-off-by: Kamal Heib <kamalheib1@gmail.com>
Message-Id: <20190403113343.26384-4-kamalheib1@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Yuval Shaia <yuval.shaia@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Marcel Apfelbaum <marcel.apfelbaum@gmail.com>