The vhost-user-blk export runs requests asynchronously in their own
coroutine. When the vhost connection goes away and we want to stop the
vhost-user server, we need to wait for these coroutines to stop before
we can unmap the shared memory. Otherwise, they would still access the
unmapped memory and crash.

This introduces a refcount to VuServer which is increased when spawning
a new request coroutine and decreased before the coroutine exits. The
memory is only unmapped when the refcount reaches zero.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20220125151435.48792-1-kwolf@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>