Some of the CFLAGS that are discovered during configure, for example
compiler warnings, are being included on the linker command line because
QEMU_CFLAGS is added to it.  Other flags, such as the -m32, appear twice
because they are included in both QEMU_CFLAGS and LDFLAGS.  All this
leads to confusion with respect to what goes in which Makefile variables
(and we have plenty).

So, introduce QEMU_LDFLAGS for flags discovered by configure, following
the lead of QEMU_CFLAGS, and stop adding to it:

1) options that are already in CFLAGS, for example "-g"

2) duplicate options

At the same time, options that _are_ needed by both compiler and linker
must now be added to both QEMU_CFLAGS and QEMU_LDFLAGS, which is clearer.
This is mostly -fsanitize options.  For now, --extra-cflags has this behavior
(but --extra-cxxflags does not).

Meson will not include CFLAGS on the linker command line, do the same in our
build system as well.

Signed-off-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>