aio_poll(ctx, true) will soon block when fd handlers have been set.
Previously aio_poll() would return early if all .io_flush() returned
false.  This means we need to check the equivalent of the .io_flush()
condition *before* calling aio_poll(ctx, true) to avoid deadlock.

Reviewed-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>