Instead of taking the writer lock internally, require callers to already
hold it when calling bdrv_unref_child(). These callers will typically
already hold the graph lock once the locking work is completed, which
means that they can't call functions that take it internally.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Emanuele Giuseppe Esposito <eesposit@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20230911094620.45040-21-kwolf@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>